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What is stopping you from performing the way you know you can?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

What if I tell you that it’s people!<\/strong><\/h4>\n

As athletes, we\u2019re experts at pushing our bodies, tracking our performance, working on our conditioning, and grinding through reps. But what about the mental game?<\/strong> We often ignore the internal chatter until it starts screaming.<\/p>\n

Have you ever truly stopped and wondered why you hesitate before taking that crucial shot, or what it is that causes you to procrastinate on that extra strength session, or why you feel mentally tired before a big game? What is underneath all that doubt when you\u2019re in a high-pressure situation?<\/p>\n

For a long time<\/strong>, I pondered these questions. But when I finally faced them, the answer shocked me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It was other people!!! <\/strong>Or rather, how I was letting other people impact me<\/strong>. I was spending all my time and energy worrying about them. What would my coaches think if I made a mistake? What my teammates would say if we lost. What my family expected of me. What the critics on social media were posting.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s the hardest truth to swallow<\/strong>: Although some want you to succeed, some actively want to see you fail.<\/strong> Rivals, online trolls, even jealous peers. They feed on hesitation and doubt.<\/p>\n

The reality is this: No matter how hard you try, you cannot control other people.<\/strong> And yet, you train and compete as if you can, whether you’re seeking their praise or fearing their disapproval or resentment.<\/p>\n

You live in thoughts of:<\/strong><\/h4>\n
    \n
  • If you make the safe play, your coach will approve of you.<\/li>\n
  • If you never show weakness, your teammates will respect you.<\/li>\n
  • If you cater to everyone else’s expectations, you’ll find peace.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    What does this way of thinking do to your body and performance?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    This isn’t just a “thinking” problem<\/strong>. The stress of worrying about others triggers a real, physical chain reaction that directly sabotages your performance. When you’re focused on external judgments, you’re putting your body in the wrong state for peak performance<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

    Here\u2019s what happens inside you:<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    It activates your threat system (Fight-or-Flight)<\/strong>
    \nWhen your brain is busy worrying about what your parents, coach, or friends think or what a rival might say, it interprets this social pressure as a threat<\/strong>. This triggers the amygdala, flooding your body with stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. This causes<\/strong> muscle tension, reduced fine motor control, and faster, shallower breathing. Your heart rate spikes, not from optimal arousal, but from anxiety. This directly leads to “choking”, <\/strong>those missed shots, clumsy footwork, and technical errors that shouldn’t happen.<\/p>\n

    You lose the relaxed, fluid state<\/strong> essential for precision and grace. Your muscles feel tight and heavy.<\/p>\n

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    It drains your mental energy and focus<\/strong>
    \nYour prefrontal cortex, the part of your brain responsible for decision-making, focus, and tactical thinking, gets hijacked by worry. Instead of processing the game, it’s wasted on managing imaginary conversations and scenarios<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

    Remember, <\/strong>mental fatigue feels just like physical fatigue. It leads to slower reaction times, “brain fog,” and poor decision-making. You become indecisive, hesitating at the crucial moment because your processing power is already depleted. You’re a step behind because your mind is elsewhere.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    It erodes confidence and creates self-doubt<\/strong>
    \nTrue confidence comes from trusting your training and your abilities. When your focus is on external validation, your confidence becomes conditional and fragile. One critical comment or mistake can shatter it. E.g., you start playing safe, avoid risks, and shrink from the spotlight. Your body language communicates uncertainty to both your opponents and yourself. You lose the aggressive, decisive edge that wins games. You stop being the playmaker and become a passenger.<\/p>\n

    In short, thinking about others puts your body in a survival state, not a performance state.<\/strong> You’re preparing to avoid social danger instead of preparing to execute a skill with excellence.<\/p>\n

    Your new game plan: From external noise to inner strength<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    The good news? You can train your mind just like you train your body. By using the following strategies, you can shift into high performance, and people can become your trigger for activating your high-performance state.<\/p>\n

    Awareness \u2013 Know that it is happening<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    Before a big moment, notice where your mind goes. Could it be your rival\u2019s trash talk? The scout in the stands? Your parents\u2019 hopes?<\/p>\n

    Acknowledge the thought<\/strong>. “I’m worrying about what my coach thinks”, and then gently label it: “External Noise.” This simple act separates the distraction from your own mission.<\/p>\n

    Decide to create a new response – Shift<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    When the negative thought pops up you, just say \u201cSTOP\u201d and then \u201cThank you for reminding me to \u2026(Shift) and include a better thought.<\/p>\n

    Examples:
    \nThank you for reminding me<\/strong> to Breathe
    \nThank you for reminding me<\/strong> to focus on the next play
    \nThank you for reminding me<\/strong> to stay in it<\/p>\n

    By using these phrases you can stop the rumination and shift your focus.<\/p>\n

    Use the phrase \u201cLet them\u201d<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    Rivals and even those close to you may be resentful and say terrible things about you, and even make up stories. You can get sucked into this narrative, or you can just say to yourself: \u201cLet them think what they will\u201d, \u201cLet them say what they will\u201d I am more than all of that when I focus on what I am capable of.<\/p>\n

    Control yourself not others – Real strength isn’t about controlling the world around you. It’s about mastering yourself. That’s where true power lives.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

    Create a High Performance State anchor<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    You can also make use of a technique called \u201cAnchoring\u201d, whereby you can use the trigger to activate a more resourceful state.<\/p>\n

    The bottom line<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    The field, the court, the track, that is your space. It\u2019s for you and your performance. Don\u2019t let invisible spectators live rent-free in your head. By redirecting your focus from what you can\u2019t control (others) to what you can (yourself), you\u2019re not just freeing up mental energy. You\u2019re unlocking the confident, focused, and powerful athlete you truly are.<\/p>\n

     <\/p>\n

    \"\"Article compiled by Bennie Louw
    \nLife and Executive Coach, Speaker, High Performance Team Developer, and Sport Mind Coach.<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Bennie Louw<\/strong> is the founder of Sport Mind Coach<\/strong> and the Sport Mind Coach Academy<\/strong>, a leader in mental performance training for athletes, teams, coaches, and parents.<\/p>\n

    With a BA and BA Honours from Stellenbosch University<\/strong>, Bennie combines academic grounding with practical coaching experience to help clients master the mental side of performance. Bennie brings a unique, integrated approach to performance psychology that goes beyond surface-level motivation, draws from sports psychology, neuroscience, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), hypnotherapy, and resilience training.<\/p>\n

    Bennie\u2019s mission is to empower athletes to thrive under pressure<\/strong>, develop emotional intelligence, and build bulletproof confidence, both on and off the field. He believes mental mastery is the key to unlocking consistent high performance, especially in high-stakes moments where talent alone is not enough.<\/p>\n

    Bennie works with individuals and teams at all levels, from school sports and amateur athletes to elite professionals, facilitating one-on-one sessions and workshops throughout South Africa.<\/p>\n

    Shift your thinking, change your life<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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